If you’re looking to meet new people and have casual sex in
the back of a bar, dating is fun and stress-free. But if you’re looking for something serious, good luck to you. It’s not going to be as easy as it used to be. This is why dating is so hard for those of us who want something real.
1. Dating isn’t dating anymore.
Now, it’s binge-watching Netflix and meaningless fucking and missed opportunities. Even if you’re asked out on an official date, you won’t know it, because it’ll be called “hanging out,” which is the vaguest word in Urban Dictionary. It could mean they want to be friends with you or date you or fuck you. No one knows. You just have to guess what outfit would work the best and pray that you’re right.
2. No one wants to get serious while they’re still young.
They want to wear makeup in elementary school, have sex in middle school, and move into their own apartment in high school. Marriage is the only thing they don’t want at a young age. They want to be single for as long as possible to keep their options open. Looking for something serious isn’t the norm anymore. It’s the exception.
3. We can’t be honest about what we want.
We can say that we’re looking for something serious, but we can’t go into too much detail. If we reveal that we’re looking for someone to spend the rest of our lives with, we’ll scare everyone else away. They don’t want to hear that. They want to hear that we want something semi-serious that could potentially turn serious if the planets aligned the right way.
4. We’re a generation of skeptics.
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